

"I'll never feel better," muttered the small four-year-old struggling to overcome the flu. He had hit the wall and his optimism had faded into depression. Hitting the wall is a familiar term for participants in endurance sports, particularly cycling and running. Hitting the wall describes the condition when an athlete suddenly loses energy and becomes fatigued, the result of glycogen stored in the liver and muscles becoming depleted.
Optimism is dependent on your view of adversity and the thoughts and feelings you internalize when experiencing a difficulty. How you think and feel changes what you actually do. The good news is this: if if optimism and the ability to scale the wall is not one of your natural talents (meaning that adversity creates the adrenaline to climb the wall), it can be learned. If you end up thinking "What's the use?" adversity paralyzes you and you quit.
To help them through the crisis when they hit the wall, cyclists and marathon runners use a technique called carbohydrate loading. It increases complex carbohydrate intake during the last few days before an event.
For the corporate endurance athlete, carbohydrate loading is similar to pumping up your mental toughness beforehand in order to dispute and ultimately dismiss depression later in the race.
Albert Ellis gave us this model to understand the relationships between an event and your coping response:
To illustrate Ellis' point, let's take the sales professional who is makes cold calls. If on the 10th "no" the professional runs the experience of cold calling through the filter of his beliefs that "I'm no good at this" the coping response is to quit for the day. If, however, the professional is predisposed for optimism or has learned to be optimistic and he runs the same experience through the filter of "Great, only a few more calls until I get a sale," the coping response is to scale the wall and double the effort.
For every adversity you encounter, your belief system and what you say to yourself determines if you hit the wall and crumple into the fetal position or if you get out your climbing gear and scale the wall with resolve.
